The pandemic continues to be a struggle around the world. In our area, the numbers are higher than they've ever been.
We're so lucky that Lizzie's nursing home has always been diligent about taking precautions. Even that hasn't stopped COVID cases from creeping into the home. Visiting has been limited to essential caregivers and they wear full PPE while in the home.
Lizzie continues to recognize us most of the time, despite the PPE. I've learned to greet her with Name (hers & mine), Connection, Purpose.
Hi Mom. It's your daughter Jemi. I'm here for a visit.
This seems to alleviate some of the stress she feels at the change in her routine or the surprise at my appearance.
If she doesn't react to my presence (or reacts negatively), I'll repeat it.
If that doesn't help her realize who I am, I try music - it's a safe spot for mom.
I'm here to have a sing with you!
The song that she currently loves the most is Good Morning (from Singing In The Rain).
It almost always makes her smile. And when I get to the part, "...good morning, good morning to you!"
Mom joins in with "And you!"
Then we repeat the phrase, alternating back and forth with silly inflections.
This always has her smiling!
She may not know I'm Jemi.
She may not know I'm her daughter.
But she knows she likes to sing with me!
How about you? Any tricks to jogging memories or connections with your Loved One (especially when we're wearing all the PPE!)?